Dr. Gila

Stuck in a cycle of big emotions, power struggles,

and questioning if you’re doing this parenting thing “right”?

I see you, and you’re not alone 💗

Hi there!

I’m Dr. Gila,

(rhymes with “tequila.” And no, I’m not a Gila Monster!)

My story

I started out as a clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist*, training at some fancy schmancy programs (think: Oxford and Hopkins).

But nothing stretched me more – and taught me more – than parenting in a home that looks different than “the norm,” with a kid who doesn’t fit “the norm.”

I dove headfirst into the research – not just through the lens of a professional, but with the added urgency of a desperate mom looking for tools that actually work without resorting to punishment.

And ya know what? …I did!

Honesty is one of my top values, so I’m not going to lie:

Parenting is always a work in progress.

BUT, things have gotten SO. MUCH. BETTER.

That’s why I’m passionate about helping other parents find their mojo, empowering them to harness their – and their children’s – strengths to build strong, healthy relationships that endure…even if they’re on their own.

*Note: While I am a licensed psychologist and a trained neuropsychologist, here in my coaching business, I’m not wearing either of those “hats.” That means I can’t diagnose or treat clinical conditions in my coaching work.

“Working with Dr. Gila has been life-changing!”

“Before, I felt frustrated, hopeless, and in despair. Now I feel empowered and confident. And my relationship with my strong-willed child has been transformed.

Dr. Gila is gentle, honest, kind, and thoughtful. I never felt judged, and always felt validated and supported. Her coaching is hands-on, with practical guidance I can immediately use with my child.”

— Sara, Solo mom of 2 young children

What I believe

And you deserve support.

I have to be honest (that’s how I roll):

If you want to raise kids who fear and obey you, I’m not your gal.

But if you’re determined to raise confident, resilient kids who trust and respect you…you’re in the right place!

Parenting gets easier when you stop trying to do it all alone.

“We love that Dr. Gila is evidence-based, but also warm and genuine.”

“Her lived experiences as a mom allow her such an empathic approach, which allowed us to feel so much less alone and overwhelmed. Her deep knowledge, combined with the actionable strategies she gave us, made her absolutely invaluable! And her suggestions WORKED! What a Godsend.”

— Steph, Married mom of ADHD boy

If you're ready for less chaos and more connection, I’d love to support you.

“Dr. Gila is wise and compassionate in her parent coaching.”

“She’s an excellent listener, and gives guidance that’s attuned to the individual quirks of a particular parent-child relationship rather than falling back on general platitudes. Plus, she has a great sense of humor and is an all-around nice person. Highly recommended!”

— Andrew, Divorced dad of 2