Parenting doesn't have to feel this hard
Get the support you deserve, to help you parent your strong-willed or neurodivergent child without losing your mind OR crushing their spirit. (Even if you're parenting solo!)
Welcome to R.E.S.E.T.
A highly personalized, 8-session coaching experience rooted in science, compassion...and reality.
⭐️ Only $997* for a limited time! ⭐️
*Payment plans available.
You love your child deeply...
But some most days feel harder than they should.
Maybe you're constantly putting out fires, walking on eggshells, and stuck in a seemingly endless cycle of power struggles and meltdowns.
Or maybe you're just sick of feeling exhausted and overwhelmed, with no end or break in sight.
You’ve read the books. Tried the scripts. Done your best to hold it together.
And yet, you just feel...stuck.
You don't need more generic, cookie-cutter advice.
You need - and deserve - realistic, practical support, and a plan that fits your reality.
You, my friend, deserve a R.E.S.E.T.
What is R.E.S.E.T.?
R.E.S.E.T. isn’t just the name of this program; it’s a powerful framework I draw from to support my clients in moving out of chaos and into confidence and connection.
R — Regulate through the Storms
Create a personalized SOS plan for meltdowns and tantrums, so you can respond with more confidence in the hardest moments.
E — Ease the Pressure
Dial down the daily tension and power struggles using practical tools based in brain science and child development.
S — See What's Underneath
Behavior is communication. Uncover what’s really going on with your unique child, using my signature SPIES™ framework.
E — Equip Yourself
Gain insight into your own reactions, patterns, and beliefs — without shame or judgment — and learn the tools and skills you need to show up with more confidence and intention.
T — Tend & Teach
Build a strong, healthy relationship with your child through respectful communication, co-regulation, compassion, and connection. And harness the power of that connection to equip them with the skills they need to weather the inevitable storms, even when you're not around.
I’m honest to a fault, so I won’t promise that life will be full of unicorns and rainbows after these 8 sessions. (Parenting is a long game, after all.)
But what I can guarantee is that we’ll harness the power of this framework to target what’s most relevant for you right now, so you can finally see real, meaningful shifts in your family.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
Neurodiversity-affirming, trauma-informed, connection-centered support tailored to your unique needs.
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8 private coaching sessions
You'll meet with me for 8 private coaching sessions within a 12-week period. Sessions are 50 minutes long and take place via secure Zoom.
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Asynchronous support between sessions
Message me via email or voice memo for asynchronous support when you need it.
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Personalized tools and plans
You'll have access to workbooks, trackers, and any other tools that I think will help you on your journey.
HOW IT WORKS
We'll work together to create meaningful shifts for your unique family.
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Step 0: Is this the support you need?
The first step is for us to figure out whether the RESET program is a good fit for you. We'll do that on a private Zoom call, scheduled for 50 minutes so I can really give you the attention and care you deserve. The call is free, there’s zero pressure or obligation (pinky swear!), and I’m confident the call itself will feel supportive and worthwhile, even if you don’t ultimately sign up for coaching.
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Step 1: Identify a realistic, meaningful goal
If you try to leap to the top of a ladder, you're bound to end up with some broken bones. Together, we'll identify your personal starting point, where you want to go, and the next small step to get you there. (It may not be what you think!)
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Step 2: Create a plan that works for you
Using the R.E.S.E.T. framework as our guide, we'll develop a custom plan for your family that meets you where you are, and gently guides you in the direction you want to go.
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Step 3: Apply, adjust, and adapt
I'll be by your side every step of the way as you learn, process, and implement. And when things don’t go as expected (because…parenting!), we’ll regroup (without judgment), recalibrate, and revise.
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Step 4: What's next?
Parenting is a long-game, of course. At the end of our 8 sessions together, we'll re-assess, and determine what next steps would be most beneficial for your unique family.
R.E.S.E.T. is designed to get you out of overwhelm, and into a rhythm that’s more empowered, connected, and grounded in what you and your child actually need.
Like Sara, whose relationship with her strong-willed child was “transformed” through coaching with Dr. Gila.
“Working with Dr. Gila has been life-changing!
Before, I felt frustrated, hopeless, and in despair. Now I feel empowered and confident. And my relationship with my strong-willed child has been transformed.
Dr. Gila is gentle, honest, kind, and thoughtful. I never felt judged, and always felt validated and supported. Her coaching is hands-on, with practical guidance I can immediately use with my child.
I am truly grateful that Dr. Gila came into my life.”
Sara, Solo mom of 2 young children
You’re parenting a beautifully complex kid in a world that isn’t built for either of you.
When your kid doesn't "fit the mold," or your family doesn't look like everyone else's, it's no wonder "traditional," cookie-cutter parenting advice just doesn't cut it.
You deserve support.
REAL support. For your REAL life.
Trust me, I get it. I've been there.
HELLO!
I'm Dr. Gila (she/her)
(Rhymes with "tequila")
I'm a psychologist and neuropsychologist, but nothing has taught or stretched or challenged me more than single parenting a strong-willed, neurodivergent kiddo.
I dove head-first into the parenting research and discovered powerful tools for my own family, and a passion for helping other struggling parents too!
Now, as a Jai-certified parent coach and a certified Clini-Coach®, I help parents handle the hard stuff and build strong, healthy relationships with their kids AND themselves.
The secret?
Parenting with connection,
NOT perfection.
Real Stories from Real Parents
"We love that Dr. Gila is evidence-based, but also warm and genuine. Her lived experiences as a mom allow her such an empathic approach, which allowed us to feel so much less alone and overwhelmed. Her deep knowledge, combined with the actionable strategies she gave us, made her absolutely invaluable!
And her suggestions WORKED! What a Godsend."
"Working with Dr. Gila has been life-changing! Before, I felt frustrated, hopeless, and in despair. Now, I feel empowered and confident. And my relationship with my strong-willed child has been transformed.
Dr. Gila is gentle, honest, kind, and thoughtful. I never felt judged, and always felt validated and supported. Her coaching is hands-on, with practical guidance I can immediately use with my child. I am truly grateful that Dr. Gila came into my life."
"Dr. Gila has been amazing!
She is able to listen and reflect back and reframe as necessary (and it’s often been necessary) without judgment and with so much kindness and solidarity.
I am so grateful to have Gila in my corner and in my head, helping me celebrate the small successes, and gently and so wisely troubleshooting the challenges."
Apply today.
(You deserve it!)
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